Read about a difficult issue on someone elses blog.
"do you tink that love is a choice or a feeling?"

I would say that love is not about choices. Its a feeling in you dat jus comes without a reason. A feeling you cant explain. A feeling that jus makes ur heart beat faster and the world revolve slower. That particular someone jus keeps appearing on ur mind all day all nite. If you ever loved a person till the pt where you still love him/her even tho u tell yourself not to have any feelings for that particular person then you will understand.
But upon further thot... the choice part comes in. Its true that its more of a decision than choice since humans don't normally choose the worst path for themselves, they would usually decide to go through their lives with someone they at least liked. Marriage is for a lifetime. Its not something like i marry you for the fun of it. It involves alot of responsibilities and people. Its never jus about 2 people, it involves the world. And wad happens after the honeymoon period is over, thats where the decision sticks.

Mayb i should also observe how interpersonal relationship works.
Its kinda interesting to find out what made people do certain things, why certain people say something, what are the underlying implications and how people react to it. Its fascinating altho I maybe assuming most of the time.